Tuesday, December 13, 2011

Truths Singles Must Know Before They Go Into Marriage Relationhip

The state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband and wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognized by law is a thing of joy, but why are many enduring in this partnership instead of enjoying it? The truth behind the scene is what every single ought to know.
     Failing to plan is planning to fail. From my interviews and researches on married people, I found out that a lot of them especially the females went into marriage with illusions while the males were not mature. To excel above those who have gone before you, all you need do is to learn from their failures and successes; this places you on eagle's wings.
   You must be marriageable before you go into marital relationship, if not you mess up this great institution. An intimate or close union is not for the immature male and female because true matrimony is not a marriage of convenience. Your marriageability is what influences your marital circumstances. If you are fully prepared and properly position yourself for this journey, nothing will upset your applecart.
   Never do things because others are doing it. If anything is worth doing, it must be done well. You don't get married because your mates are marrying. You must be a person of mark who is marked by a perfect personality in this day and age. You are the choicest of the best, so, if the mountain top is your desire never settles for the valley. You should never get because of a married name or marital status. The real marriage starts after the wedding ceremony, now the thrills of the wedding march have faded, the wedding cake finished and the wedding ring a symbol; what keeps the union going is the conviction, love and commitment that you have in your heart which lubricates, reinforces and builds the holy agreement.
   Before you tie the knot, know that marriage is a university of no graduation. It is a life time business so, you must be careful on the type of person you go into partnership with because divorce is not part of this commission. To do well in your marital relationship you must build your self- concept which involves self- awareness, self- appreciation and believe in one yourself. Know your strengths and weaknesses. Know the rules of relationship and understand the maxims of maturity, for they greatly position you for success in marriage.
          You can build a strong family by knowing what men want, what women want and what God want in marriage. Be mindful to produce offspring's that will positively impact the system that drives the progress of humanity. Know this – children learn by imitation, so be a good exemplary. Know you that parenting is not a joke; a mistake you make in raising up your child or children will affect your family and the society. Make your marital relationship divorce–proof. Gain maturity mentally, socially, spiritually, physically, intellectually and financially. Husband and wife must know their role and fulfill it. Let your union be characterized by fidelity and dignity which is worthy of emulation.
          As a visionary you don't marry anyhow! Go for the best. Be aright and you will get it right. Do away with boyish or girlish mentality. Develop yourself because like attracts like. A man wants a woman who is as mature asBritain, as beautiful asAmericaand as endowed asAfrica. A woman wants a strong honest and influential man; one who has favorable financial state and believes in himself. As a man, you are a leader and king in your home. Have a positive attitude and lead well because everything rises and falls on leadership. Woman, you are a queen, play your part well.
          Proper preparation positions you for success. With these truths gird yourself and create your state of favorable circumstances. You have a choice; unite with your better half and love him or her for being your best friend' then your  marriage will be on the upward and forward only. You have a choice! Apply what you have learnt from reading  this article and your marriage must succeed.

Copyright, Ifeanyi Enoch Onuoha

The Child Right in the World Today

The essence of law in the society is for the protection of its citizenry. Hence, all authority must obey the protection of rights especially that of a child because he or she is tomorrow's leader. This article is necessary in this time when social habit towards the child is facing the challenges of civilization. We have a great responsiblity toward children, and need to respect them.
The issues relating to the right of a child have gained such prominence that it stands out as an area of law which must be salvaged from the increasing influence of negative civilization. It is appropriate that the government, people and organizations identify this malaise and initiate means to curb the ugly issue. It is generally acceptable that and people's right especially that of a child deserve respect.
Nevertheless, the issue bothering on the rights of a child calls for special study and attention. This is so because children cannot make declarations or laws for themselves nor are they capable asserting their own rights except through the adults (children's best friend). It is clear that necessity is laid upon us to carry out this onerous task of respecting, empowering and creating a better future for our children.
A child is biologically a human between the stages of birth and puberty. The legal definition of a "child" generally refers to a union, otherwise known as one younger than the age of maturity. There are numerous definitional problems associated with the concept of who a child is. Many countries, laws or organizations have age that they use to categorize who a child is, some use the standard of one who is not above twenty one years, others use eighteen or fourteen in their stratification.
Child right are those right that nature and constitution bestow on a child because of age and this must be respected. The United Nations Declaration of the right of the child states that, "the child shall enjoy special protection and shall be given opportunities and facilities by law and by other means, to enable him/her to develop physically, mentally, spiritually and socially in a healthy and normal manner and in conditions of freedom and dignity. In the suggestion, proposing or making of law regarding the child, the child shall be the paramount consideration.
As a matter of fact, it is not enough these right in a document. Facilities must be provided under which these rights will be practiced and preserved. Non – adherent to the child right act and law should be severely punished. The family, court, government, health authority, police, social welfare etc, are machineries that can be used for the protection of the right of the child. We must respect and dignify a child because he or she is an arrow to the future.
Copyright, Ifeanyi Enoch Onuoha

Ifeanyi Enoch Onuoha's Seven Powerful Laws of Success

In this day and age, to be a big gun and hit the big time, you must know these seven powerful laws of success and apply them to your life to sit pretty and be on top of the world.

Ifeanyi Enoch Onuoha's Law of Solid-foundation:
The height you will attain in life is determined by the kind of foundation you have. Success is a process; a faulty process yields a faulty result. It is unfortunate that people ignore this irrefutable law of success and on their way to up you see them crash to the ground. Make your foundation firm; it should be as solid as a rock and you must reinforce it daily for it to carry you through. The quality of a foundation influences the durability of the structure built on it. This law helps you take the rightful steps, hit the mark and make things come up roses for you. Your foundation must be firmly founded!

Ifeanyi Enoch Onuoha's Law of Uniqueness:
To be a name to conjure with, you must stand out from the crowd by discovering your uniquity which lightens your unicity and inspires others to be their unique-selves. You are the choicest of the best, wonderfully and uniquely pottered by the Almighty master-craftsman. You are peculiar and purposefully empowered to fulfill a great purpose. Maximize your strengths and work on your weaknesses. There's no competition in destiny, the only competitor you have is you. Be the best you! The oneness of your uniqueness is beyond compare. I honor your specialness and uniqueness!

Ifeanyi Enoch Onuoha's Law of Law of Conviction:
To be flushed with succeeding in accordance with your desires, you must be firmly convinced, passionate and assured in the realization of your goal. People will only believe in your cause when you wholeheartedly believe in it and go the extra mile to make it a success. Conviction is the mother of commitment. You must develop unwavering certainty, belief and certitude in the course you follow. Have conviction in the reality of whom you are, have great confidence in your ability to come up in the world. Maximize the power of your intelligent ignorance – the ability of not knowing any limitation. The conviction that my works will bless lives makes me passionate to do my best at all times. Passion ignites the fire within you and conviction keeps it burning and shining forth. Conviction is the passport you need to go from strength to strength in the pursuit of your passion and make great strides.

Ifeanyi Enoch Onuoha's Law of Commitment:
The key to being a success in what you do is to be fully committed to it. This is an indispensable secret to becoming successful in life. You become whatever you are committed and dedicated to. I define commitment as the act of following on course a given cause until the goal is achieved. It enables you to deal with excuses and procrastination. Commitment is a choice; it is not dependent on your gifting. I have discovered that when we are passionately committed to something, we accept no excuses but results even when it is not convenient. Your commitment to move mountains and live a life of riley will bring you to the state of being over the moon.

Ifeanyi Enoch Onuoha's Law of Excellence:
To be totally fulfilled, excellence must be your desired end. To be a phenomenal and highly respected person excellence should be your focus and watchword in whatever you do. Always go for the best, never settle for less. One truth you must know is that people may forget how fast you did a job but they will never forget how well you did the work. Dedication to a vision and mission is an essential ingredient for success in any cause. Excellence is never achieved by accident; it is the result of always thriving to do better. It is what distinguishes meteority from mediocrity; it rekindles the fire in your sixth sense to come up with mind blowing and earth shaking ideas that are a match for anywhere. You can be an island of excellence in the sea of mediocrity. His Excellency! I salute the greatness in you.

Ifeanyi Enoch Onuoha's Law of Seeing:
What you see is what you get. To see correctly, you must see with your minds–eye – this is your creative and intuitive eye. Bring to play your hindsight and your foresight and use them to command your favorable circumstance. Successful people see success where others see failure. See rightly to make good and make the grade to move heaven and earth. In this golden age, your sight must be worlds apart and help you put your best foot forward. See the best and get the best in life. If you can conceive it, believe it, see and accept it then you can receive it.

Ifeanyi Enoch Onuoha's Law of Sacrifice:
Success requires sacrifice. To enjoy success and enjoy rich fulfillment, you must sacrifice your time, ability and resources to attain your desired end. Nothing is free even in Freetown. To get a prize, you must pay a price. Those who want something for nothing always get packages full of regrets. Success demands sacrifice. It is a continuous process, not just a one-time stuff. Successful people sacrifice the comfort of what is good in order to get the best. To rise to higher height and live the forward and upward life you must give up to go up. Blue chip companies that are ruling the world today paid great prices to get geniuses and pay them handsomely to run their companies. Leaders, who are doing well in this day and age, pay the price of humility to synergize and mastermind with other great leaders to achieve greater results. Render good services to humanity and divinity. Policies may change but principals do not. Adherence to these seven powerful laws of success will put your life on the up and up. You have a life; make a success of it.

© Ifeanyi Enoch Onuoha

Ifeanyi Enoch Onuoha's Profitable pointers – Part 1

To excel and live higherlife there are truths you must know and apply to your life. These principles are what helped me to be sitting pretty on top of things today and I want you to benefit from them to enjoy favorable circumstances 24/7.
 #1. You have a life; make a success of it.
 #2. There's no how you can be rich with a poverty mentality.
 #3. Information is the power that makes one higher than the other.
 #4. A successful man is not selfish. His main desire in life is the betterment of humanity.
 #5. As within, so without.
 #6. You can breathe life into the spirit of others by inspiring them.
 #7. Leave every person you meet better than the way you met them.
 #8. A talent wasted is the worst sin.
 #9. Love only loves.
 #10. You can discover your purpose and champion the cause for a positive change.
 #11. Synergy is the sagacity you need to build and lead your city.
 #12. No one can achieve success alone.
 #13. There is no true success without peace of mind.
 #14. The best time to prevent divorce is before marriage.
 #15. Cease trying to make another person a second edition of you but help him/her be his/her best.
  #16. In every human being is a limitless reservoir of power which can overcome any challenge in the world.
 #17. Your mind colors/paints your world.
 #18. Your thought is a cause and every cause produces an effect.
 #19. Your mind is like a garden whatever you plant in it comes forth in abundance.
 #20. Wish for another the good you wish yourself.
 #21. Forgveness of others is essential for peace of mind and better health.
 #22. You are needed.
 #23. Change your thoughts, change your life.
 #24. Stop stinking thinking and think positively. Positive thinking leads to positive doing which yields positive result.
 #25. One who does not want to live a higherlife is abnormal.
 #26. You are made or unmade by yourself. In the armory of your thought,  you fasion the weapons by which you are destroyed or the tools by which you build a better life and mansions of joy for yourself and others.
 #27. Words kill and words heal.
 #28. You are unique.
 #29. Expand your horizon to unlimit your greatness.
 #30. Your mentality determines and influences your greatness.
 #31. No cross; no crown.
 #32. Your impact in life determines your input to lives.
 #33. New things comes through the power of new ideas.
 © Ifeanyi Enoch Onuoha